How?

Intro

Many people before you and I have learned a language successfully. Based on what I've seen, there are many paths, but some things consistent with all are:

Remember, consistency is key here. And for those of us who are super busy (I know I am!!) language learning is still possible. Start slow if you need to, it's your journey

Mindset

Accent worries

One reason I didn’t learn Malay for so long was because I was embarrassed when others pointed out my American accent. But when you think about it, an accent is really nothing to be ashamed about is it? If anything, it’s a marker of how hard you’ve worked to learn another language despite the obstacles. When I hear others speak with an accent, I don’t think less of them just because of it, and if you do, you should, frankly, check your bias. Additionally, people are too busy thinking about themselves to worry about your accent. Lastly, practice makes perfect. If you really want to perfect your accent, not practicing because you’re ashamed isn't going to help. Baby steps.

Growth mindset

Going into the last point, don’t let failure discourage you. You will make mistakes, you will mix up words and sounds. That’s fine. Embrace the growth mindset. You might not be fluent in your target language now, but with time, you can and you will.

Tools

How to Learn

Before we dive into resources, here are some things to keep in mind:

Each person is different and each person’s approach to language learning may differ from another person’s depending on many factors such as time, current ability, age, etc.

Before diving in, I suggest setting a 30-45 minute timer and picking 1-2 of the resources linked below and watching them all the way through.

After watching, reflect on what methods resonate with you and what you can incorporate into your life to meet your language goals.

Set your goals, make your plans. When will you learn everyday? How will you learn? Determine your bare minimum activity: what small activity can you do when you’re short on time/busy but still want to get some learning in? For me, it’s flashcards.

If a video takes you to another, let it (as long as you don’t end up stuck in a rabbit hole for several hours). While it’s important to research, it’s also important not to obsess over finding the perfect advice or perfect roadmap. You’re not going to find one. What matters here is getting started, you can always adjust as you go.

General language learning activities

I secretly learned my mother's language - Jannah Hossein (8m)

Jannah took an immersion heavy approach, identifying her top words, listening to them every chance she got, and incorporating 30 minutes of speaking practice every day.

Zoe Languages YT channel

Makes content about how to learn Chinese, English, French, German, Arabic, Turkish, Persian as well as general content about how to set up effective language learning study plans, finding resources, etc.

How I learnt Norwegian on my own - Ilys

Motivated by wanting to move to Norway and learn Norwegian so well as if it were “a mother tongue," Ilys takes a natural approach, mirroring how children learn languages quickly.

  • Listening a lot and often - doesn’t matter if you don’t understand yet, get used to the sounds
  • Read over and over - kids often learn through stories
  • Learn simple words- made a list of words she thought would be useful
  • Write your own personal texts (e.g. journal or stories)
  • Adapt your method as you get better
  • Buy and read books - everyday, flip to a random page and see if you understand anything
  • Listen to audiobooks while you read so you learn visually and by audio
  • Use series and movies
  • Make stories using the vocabulary you want to learn
  • Learn sentences by heart to speak without needing to stop and think so you can focus more on accent
  • Speak to yourself

To learn how she did it in more detail, watch her video!

Elysse Speaks

24yr old who taught herself 5+ languages. Makes many helpful videos about language learning such as how to speak with no accent and fun ways to learn.

Xiaomanyc

Yes, this is the guy that learns people’s language in 24 hours and surprises them with it, if you’re chronically online like me, you’ve probably seen at least one of his videos. See his method for learning languages in 24 hours below:

How I learn any language in 24 hours (12m)